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​Growing up black

Betty Rivers, February 2023

It's important to acknowledge that not all Black people are the same. Black people come from diverse backgrounds and experiences. Their cultural, religious, and ethnic identities shape their unique perspectives and worldviews. However, it's also important to recognize that Black people often share similar experiences growing up, from having to deal with your parents' nagging, the fashion trends we aspired to mimic, and even the sayings that were said.

In this article, we'll be touching on some of those similarities that we experience growing up Black.


  1. You've been at a function, usually a family function, for a couple of hours, and your parent says that you're about to leave, so they start telling everyone their goodbyes, but you end up staying for another 30 minutes with them still saying their goodbyes.
  2. When you have your favorite family member, usually your cousin, at your house, and you want them to spend the night, you tell them to ask your parent if they can "spinanite" (spend the night) at your house because if you ask, you know they're going to say no.
  3. When you wake up on a Saturday–it could be at random or it could be a Saturday approaching a holiday–and you start hearing the music by artists like Charlie Wilson, Luther Vandross, Mary J. Bilge, and more, you know that you're going to be spending that whole day cleaning every aspect of that house.
  4. Being outside the house and seeing a McDonald's and asking for something, you get the response, "Do you have McDonald's money?" Knowing you don't, shaking your head, they respond, "We have food at home," and when you get there, there's nothing that you want to eat because it's probably the leftovers from three days ago.
  5. You’re in your room minding your own business, but get called down by your parent. Upon arrival, you are asked to grab the remote for them. You look and see that the remote is 3 feet in front of them. You’re mad that they've called you for this, but you know you can't say anything, so you just give it to them. 
Honorable Mention: 
Being thirsty after playing outside all day but knowing you can't go back outside if you go in the house because your parent don't want you "running in and outside the house," so now you have to pick: are you ready to go inside and stay inside, or do you still want to be outside and play?

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    • Black History Month Collection >
      • Angelica Dass: The Nature of Color
      • Chicago's Historian, My Father
      • Top 3 Black Artists
      • Pain For Profit
      • Black Historical Figures
      • Hiding Behind the Strength
    • Black History Month 2023 >
      • The Diaspora Wars
      • Growing Up Black
      • The Duality of Afro-Latinos
      • 5 Thing That Make me Happy as a Black Person
      • Black Girls' Hair
      • Hot Takes From A Tired Black Girl
    • Women's History Month >
      • Books Written by Women
      • women are amazing
      • Anonymous Stories: Women’s History Month
    • Hispanic Heritage Month >
      • Hispanic Heritage Month
      • Top 5 Books for Hispanic Heratige Month
      • El Día de los Muertos - FAQ
      • Mexican Independence Day
      • Hispanic Artists
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    • PODCAST >
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    • BALM Founders
    • Teacher's Corner >
      • Teacher's Corner: Gordon
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      • Teacher's Corner: David
      • Teacher's Corner: Wilde
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    • Socials >
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    • Op-Eds >
      • What Does It Mean to Fear?
      • The Controversy with Kpop Survival Shows
      • Being Aromantic
      • Why is the AC So Hated? (From an 8th Grader)
      • 5 Things That Make Me Happy as a Queer Person
      • Being An Only Child
      • Being The Youngest Sibling
      • The Downfall of Legos
      • Helicopter Parents and The Fear of Growing Up
      • I'm Done
      • Yes, You Are the Problem
    • Media Reviews >
      • Radiohead - OK Computer
      • Ride the Cyclone Review
      • White Male Rage Movies
      • Top 5 Movies
      • Album Review : DESVELADO - Eslabon Armado
      • Why I Love Steven Universe
      • Book v. Movie: The Hunger Games
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      • Atlas
      • Armageddon
      • Groups of Three
      • Peace Lilies
      • Father
      • I'll always remember you
    • Location Reviews >
      • Navy Pier
    • Sports Panel >
      • Chess Team Sports Analysis
  • Featured Article
  • Farewell Articles
    • MORANT
    • Final Advice from a DONE Senior
    • Funny Friend
    • Why Everyone Should Go to WashU
    • High School Was NOT The Musical
    • Immigration in Florida
    • Being The Older Sibling
    • My Goodbye Article
    • High School Musical Review from a Senior's Perspective
    • Top 3 Senior statements