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approval

aissa bocoum, january 2026

What’s needed for approval?
A stamp of approval?
A genuine nod?
Recognition of your work 
Or just to fit in.

Approval is just a medal
And someone else's opinion
If not understood, approval won’t come
So what must we do to be approved?
Must we conform and change to their standards
If that’s so, everything will be the same

Why must we wait for someone’s appreciation
Their approval
Why must we change for approval
Is it for love or is it to be heard.
To show you mattered
Not just someone playing pretend
Should we wait for recognition 
or should we go ahead embracing our imperfect selves

Approval is like a medal 
A medal that will either be recognized through time
Or fill with dust in the near future.
Others want to be heard to be praised
To say they matter to say I made it, I won.

Does it always feel like winning 
changing and changing who you are
For just a moment of recognition 
your creativity like the wisp of dandelions will go in the breeze.

Approval is what us humans crave.
May it be gained through hard work or pain
A quiet moment that held your hard work for the world to see.

We’re imperfect so why do we need others approval
Is it to be seen, heard, or to be less lonely
To receive recognition 
Approval can change one’s mind 
It pushes one to break their limits or break themselves
One must be careful of one’s health.

To be seen as someone who’s on top
Maybe to not be invisible to others
Not to be compared to others
Or to make your parents proud,
Everyone has their reasons.

Many want to showcase their talents or skills
To the world, they’re just the ones before
Maybe once in a while, there’s someone spectacular
But how about those who don't make it 
Will they thrive to be better or abandon the thing that bought them joy

Approval is what everyone wants
To be right
To dream to be one of a kind
Approval is what we all want 
 it can build you or destroy you.
To much pressure and  pain
 to be better at those who are better then you
Their stamp of approval means everything to you.

AISSA BOCOUM

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      • Welcome to Derry: Season 1
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      • The Amazing Digital Circus
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      • My Favorite Color Used To Be Pink
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      • Cancel the Mouse: Why New Disney Sucks
      • Is Hope the New Punk Rock?: Superman Movie Review
    • 10.25 >
      • Ignorance Is PURE Bliss
      • The Subjectivity of Creativity: How Wrongful Interpretation is Dangerous
      • Petty Games
      • If You're So Wise, Why Do You Come Off So Passionless?
      • How Animal Farm by George Orwell Still Speaks Today
      • How To Train Your Hyper-Realistic Live Action Reboot
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      • Art fight Collection
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      • The Overconsumption Cycle
      • My Experience Being Painfully Insecure.
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      • They Hate Us Cause They Ain't Us
      • Transgressions Against the Father
      • Watership Down
      • The Black Phone 2: More is Less
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